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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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Traumatic events leave painful images and keep us from our primary grief about the person who died. (Published 6/30/2015)

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I was involved in a motorcycle accident in which my boyfriend died. I have anxiety every day and especially on Fridays, the day it happened. Because of my injuries and the trauma, I can’t remember exactly how it happened. I’m obsessed with knowing what happened, and I even wonder how and why I’m still here. Most painful of all for me, is that he died of a broken neck. I didn’t know what to do and did nothing to save him before help arrived. I am tormented by the thought of him gasping for air and dying while I couldn’t help. I just can’t seem to get over it. What can I do?


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